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[转] 男女交往的最高境界  

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[转] 男女交往的最高境界 - 几度夕阳红 - 几度夕阳红土

 

     


 
                                                       其实男女之间的友谊是人的一种高尚的感情,
                                                               是介乎於爱情和友情之间的一种情感。
 
                                             这种感情她本身不是爱人,不是情人,但又超出一般朋友,
                                                                    这种感情是不言爱,更不言性。
 
                                                                  但会令你心动,却又不会动情;
                                               让你温暖,但不会有激情,纯净中有甜美,平淡中有绵长。
 
                                                                  有一句话比喻是最贴切的,
                                                        那就是:站在不远不近的地方去欣赏对方。 

 

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                                                                   这种感情在于心的了解,精神的交融,
                                                                  两人的心贴的很近,身体却离的“很远”,
                                                       这是一种精神层次的“柏拉图”,只有理性的人才能做出。
                                                                              只有理智人才能得到。
                                                          两个人在一起时,有着精神上的默契,有着心灵的统一,
                                                                       他们可以谈爱情,谈婚姻,谈未来,
                                                                      可以无所顾及地谈人生所有的问题,
                                                                        心有灵犀,心意相通,相知相惜。
                                                                               互相扶持,互相敬重。
                                                                   感觉像情人,却无情人间的那种腻味;
                                                                 感觉像兄妹,却没有兄妹间的那份庄重,
                                                                 随意但庄重,亲密但理性,相知而无私,
                                                               那种感觉是美妙的,那种味道是让人难喻的。 

 

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                                                           拥有这种感情的两个人,不会当自己是异性,
                                              他们可以紧紧的握手,也可能会结结实实的拥抱,但那与性无关,
                                                        是友爱是欣赏,是思无邪,而绝不是欲望,不是占有。
                                                他们会一起欣赏尼采,会一起探讨拜伦,但绝不是互送一朵小花。
                                                            他们可以一起去郊游,可以一起去喝酒,
                                                   到了车站,说声拜拜,各走各的路,不用相约,不用相守,
                                            不用腻腻歪歪假装分不了手,轻轻松松带着尊严走自己回家的路。 

 

 

        

[转] 男女交往的最高境界 - 几度夕阳红 - 几度夕阳红土

 

 


                                                                              当然那份异性的吸引也不否认,
                                                                       偶尔也会有那么几份刹那令人情不自禁,
                                                                          悄悄流露几许爱慕之意,也确难免,
                                                                               他感觉到了,她也感觉到了,
                                                                            那是握手的瞬间的轻微的感觉,
                                                                                   那是拥抱朦胧的冲动,
                                                                         但是当他们抬头再看看澄澈的天空,
                                                                                对望一下彼此无私的眼眸,
                                                            他们就会知道:有些东西比爱情更持久,更值得追求。

 

 

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                                                                拥有这种感情,也会有痛苦,有无奈,
                                                            同时也有快乐,也有让你说不清的无尽享受。
                                                                 因为这种感情毕竟存在男女异性之间,
                                                             不是爱情,却又接近爱情,更可以超越爱情,
                                                                     这种感情变数很大,最难把握,
                                                                 所依持的就是彼此间的矜持和尊重,
                                                                        死守的就是最后一道防线。
                                                               因为这种感情,至情至性的人才会有,
                                                          大智大慧的人才会有,冰雪聪明的人才会有。
                                                                            因为他们必须明白:    
                                                         爱情很奢侈,就像玻璃瓶一样美丽而易碎,
                                                              要拥有这份感情,就必须远离爱和性。
                                                                      因而心照不宣,心知肚明。
                                                      一层薄薄的纸使这种关系理会具魅力和生命力。 

 

 

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                                                                                       有距离才有美感;
                                                                                       有距离才能欣赏;
                                                                                       有距离才能永远。
                                                                            只有理性的男人;只有聪慧的女人,
                                                                        才配拥有这份情意,也才能维持这份情意,
                                                                   红男绿女,庸俗男女不会,也不配拥有这种感情。
 
                                                                   我相信这种属于男女私情之外的至真至纯,
                                                                                          难寻难觅的,
                                                                   需要刻意疏离又需精心呵护的感情是存在的。
                                                                                  这是一种奇妙的感情,
                                                                  自然坦诚而潇洒,也是最高最美境界的淡然。
 
                         

 



 

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